Remove competing wants.
Get rid of competing desires. Remove competing wants. A new aim is frequently unfulfilled because you have a competing desire that contradicts it. Consider high physical fitness and a sedentary lifestyle. Your desire is also to be inactive and not exercise. It stems from a drive to avoid discomfort and conflicts with a new goal to lose weight. All opposite desires stem from a refusal to leave your comfort zone and a fear of the unknown: training, a new career, or a pastime. Consider what you need to do to reach your objective. Check to see if you don't want to do it. Thanks, Mister KayBee