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What to do with low self-esteem?

What should you do if you have poor self-esteem? What should you do if you have a low sense of self-worth? "Believe in yourself" and "Feel more confident" counsel will not help. Every day, you must work on yourself. First, you must acknowledge the problem, and every time you catch yourself believing that you are worse than others or that you will fail, focus on this and alter your perspective. Second, discover something that you are truly excellent at and that provides you delight. The only treatment for poor self-esteem is self-actualization. Thanks, Mister KayBee

Useful technique for persuading others

A Convenient Technique for Persuading Others Foot in the door  This psychological trick is based on the individual's need to be consistent in his ideas and behaviors. The essential lesson is that before asking for a large favor, ask for anything tiny that he will not refuse to do. And, in order to look consistent, the man will do a large favor as well. He will aid you once he has determined to do so. In fact, the principle does not always work for everyone. However, a couple of researchers studied this strategy in practice in their study (Freedman & Fraser,1966), and it worked 78 percent of the time. Thanks, Mister KayBee

How do you decompose the target?

How to decompose a goal?  Decomposition divides a task into smaller steps. Next, I'll explain how it can help you reach your goals. Large goals often seem too difficult to achieve and incomprehensible. This results in greater procrastination. And the brain doesn't fully understand what steps it should take to get what it wants. And here, methods such as disassembly are completely useful.  The essence is to elaborate on each step to reach the goal. For example, the goal of "buying a car". Please elaborate on how to make money for it, where and how to choose a car. This facilitates the work of your brain and allows you to reach your desired goals much faster. Thanks, Mister KayBee